Breaking Barriers: How Nicole Took on the Field Sports World and Won
Feb 17, 2025
Ever been told, “You can’t do that”? Nicole’s story is the perfect example of why you shouldn’t listen.
She didn’t just step into the male-dominated world of hunting, shooting, and field sports—she walked in with confidence, proved her worth, and carved out a space that wasn’t exactly waiting for her. From breaking free of a controlling relationship to learning how to stalk, hunt, and cook her own food, Nicole’s journey is all about resilience, self-reliance, and refusing to play by anyone else’s rules.
Finding Passion in the Wild
Nicole’s love for the outdoors didn’t start with shooting—it started with the experience. The quiet of nature, the connection to her food, and the deep respect for the land pulled her in long before she ever picked up a gun.
But, of course, stepping into a traditionally male (and, let’s be real, very white) space came with challenges. At every turn, there was someone trying to tell her what she could and couldn’t do.
- “You can’t wear that.” She wore it anyway.
- “You can’t shoot a deer.” She learned how.
- “You can’t have a bigger gun than me.” She got one.
For every doubt thrown her way, Nicole doubled down and proved them wrong.
From Breaking Barriers to Breaking Free
Nicole’s journey in field sports wasn’t just about mastering a skill—it was about reclaiming her power. She realized that her love for the outdoors and self-sufficiency had given her the strength to walk away from a toxic relationship.
She was no longer the woman who needed someone’s approval to do what she loved. She had built a life on her own terms. And once she stepped into that independence? There was no going back.
Lessons from a Woman Who Dares to Win
Nicole’s story is more than inspiring—it’s a playbook for anyone who’s ever been underestimated.
🎯 1. Passion is your power
Nicole didn’t start hunting to prove a point—she started because she loved it. The connection to her food, the discipline of the sport, and the sheer joy of being outside drove her forward. Passion beats permission every time.
🔥 2. The best revenge is success
Every “you can’t” turned into a watch me. When she was told she couldn’t handle a firearm, she got licensed. When people assumed she’d give up, she pushed harder. Instead of arguing, she outworked and outperformed.
🌍 3. Belonging isn’t given—it’s taken
Nicole assumed she’d face rejection in the field sports world. Instead? She found camaraderie, respect, and open doors. Sometimes, the biggest barrier is the one we build in our own minds.
My Favorite Moment from Our Conversation
Nicole summed it up best:
"I didn’t care if it was a man’s world. I didn’t care if it was a white world. I was just loving it."
That kind of confidence? That’s what changes the game.
Why This Episode Matters
Nicole’s story isn’t just about hunting. It’s about breaking free—from expectations, from self-doubt, and from anything that keeps you small.
If you’ve ever hesitated to take up space, this episode is your reminder that you belong wherever the hell you want to be.
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